Who you are is defined by what you're willing to struggle for - Mark Manson

• Life isn't mean to go your way all the time & that's okay.
• Pick your battle wisely. Invest your energy where it matters.
• Doing too much is the same as doing nothing at all.
• Failure is a part of life. Failure is how you learn & grow.
• Your fear of failure is your biggest enemy.
• You can't ever really find yourself because who you are will consistantly change & that's a a good thing.
• Not every problem has to be a negative thing.
• Once you are great at one thing, aim to be great at another & another & another.
• It's Important to stop & be content with what you have once in a while.
• Hard times are necessary part of life.

• It's okay that life sucks.
• You'll have less problem when you choose the things you want to give a f*ck about.
• Suffering is essential to your growth.
• We are loo% responsible for our life events.
• You can, should & will be wrong.
• You'll die, embrace it.

• Giving too many f*cks, f*ck up your life.
• Choose the things to give a fuck about.
• Stop caring about fitting in.

• Personal experiences are so important.
• If you wait for motivation before taking action, you are f*cked up.
• Travelling is fantastic.
• Comparison are a waste.

• Only hold values you control.
• Certainty hampers growth.
• Don't obsess about leaving a legacy.

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         The book made me realize the stupid & superficial values that have been guiding my own life it taught me the importance of embracing pain, failure and all negative & positive emotions that we experience.

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Reasons to read it:

• With a candid and relatable writing style, Manson shares personal stories and experiences that readers can easily connect with. His humorous approach makes the book engaging and enjoyable to read.
• Mark Manson challenges conventional self-help advice and presents a counterintuitive approach to finding happiness.

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Reasons to skip it:

• There are no significant reasons not to read "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck." However, it's worth noting that the book contains explicit language and may not be suitable for those who prefer more conservative or formal writing styles. Nonetheless, its unconventional approach and thought-provoking content can be beneficial for individuals seeking personal growth and a fresh perspective on life.